{"id":2228,"date":"2019-12-19T09:29:07","date_gmt":"2019-12-19T08:29:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vps31252.alfahosting-vps.de\/wordpress\/?page_id=2228"},"modified":"2020-05-27T08:07:42","modified_gmt":"2020-05-27T07:07:42","slug":"web_acute_parents_6_en","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/?page_id=2228&lang=en","title":{"rendered":"Acute - Children older than 6 years"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>In the first month after traumatic events, it&#8217;s very common for children and adolescents to have bad memories and to avoid things that remind them of the event (e.g. places, people, etc.). Children and adolescent can also become anxious, nervous, and\/ or have problems concentrating.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Such reactions are perfectly normal in the first few weeks and are no cause for concern.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re concerned about your child&#8217;s well-being and if you don&#8217;t know if to consult a mental health care professional is advisable, let your child fill out the <strong>Trauma-Check<\/strong> (not before at least 5 days have passed since the traumatic event).<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ba2f5d;\">Studies show that parents tend to underestimate the psychological stress their children experience following traumatic events, compared to their self-reported problems. This applies in particular to thoughts and mood (e.g. whether and how frequent unwanted images are experienced) and emotional problems (e.g. feelings of guilt, shame, etc.). Therefore, have your child fill out the <strong>Trauma-Check<\/strong> to get a more accurate assessment of the problems your child might experiences. Afterwards, discuss the result together and involve your child if you are looking for professional advice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>In case your child shows specific symptoms, your child also get tips on how to cope with them.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"ub-button orientation-button-row ub-flex-wrap wp-block-ub-button\" id=\"ub-button-40cd1048-ef53-4129-9f7e-e466d2d0996e\"><div>\n\t\t\t<a href=\"http:\/\/vps31252.alfahosting-vps.de\/limesurvey\/index.php?r=survey\/index&amp;sid=37437&amp;lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" class=\"ub-button-block-main  ub-button-flex\" style=\"border-radius: 60px;--ub-button-background-color: #2c877d; --ub-button-color: #ffffff; --ub-button-border: none; --ub-button-hover-background-color: #2c877d; --ub-button-hover-color: #ffffff; --ub-button-hover-border: none; padding-top: 10px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; padding-left: 10px; \">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"ub-button-content-holder\" style=\"flex-direction: row-reverse\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"ub-button-icon-holder\">\n\t\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" height=\"35\" width=\"35\" viewbox=\"0 0 384 512\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M192 0c-41.8 0-77.4 26.7-90.5 64H64C28.7 64 0 92.7 0 128V448c0 35.3 28.7 64 64 64H320c35.3 0 64-28.7 64-64V128c0-35.3-28.7-64-64-64H282.5C269.4 26.7 233.8 0 192 0zm0 64a32 32 0 1 1 0 64 32 32 0 1 1 0-64zM305 273L177 401c-9.4 9.4-24.6 9.4-33.9 0L79 337c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9s24.6-9.4 33.9 0l47 47L271 239c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0s9.4 24.6 0 33.9z\">\n\t\t\t\t<\/path><\/svg>\n\t\t\t<\/span><span class=\"ub-button-block-btn\">Trauma-Check<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<h3>&nbsp;<\/h3>\n<h3>Information and Tips<\/h3>\n<p>Every child and adolescent reacts differently after being exposed to traumatic events. Common symptoms after a traumatic event fall into five categories: Bad memories\/nightmares, Anxiety, Nervousness, Feelings of depersonalization\/derealization, and Feeling down. In addition, traumatic events occurred to children and adolescents can cause feelings of guilt in their parents.<\/p>\n<p>Find out more about these symptoms and how you can support your child to cope with them by clicking the corresponding buttons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns has-2-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-layout-1 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"ub-button orientation-button-row ub-flex-wrap wp-block-ub-button\" id=\"ub-button-33c0a78c-eb77-483d-b4d3-e8c417cd7bfa\"><div>\n\t\t\t<a href=\"http:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/?page_id=556&amp;lang=en\" target=\"_self\" class=\"ub-button-block-main  ub-button-flex\" style=\"border-radius: 60px;--ub-button-background-color: #2c877d; --ub-button-color: #ffffff; --ub-button-border: none; --ub-button-hover-background-color: #2c877d; --ub-button-hover-color: #ffffff; --ub-button-hover-border: none; padding-top: 10px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; padding-left: 10px; \">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"ub-button-content-holder\" style=\"flex-direction: row-reverse\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"ub-button-icon-holder\">\n\t\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" height=\"35\" width=\"35\" viewbox=\"0 0 512 512\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M256 512A256 256 0 1 0 256 0a256 256 0 1 0 0 512zM216 336h24V272H216c-13.3 0-24-10.7-24-24s10.7-24 24-24h48c13.3 0 24 10.7 24 24v88h8c13.3 0 24 10.7 24 24s-10.7 24-24 24H216c-13.3 0-24-10.7-24-24s10.7-24 24-24zm40-208a32 32 0 1 1 0 64 32 32 0 1 1 0-64z\">\n\t\t\t\t<\/path><\/svg>\n\t\t\t<\/span><span class=\"ub-button-block-btn\"> Bad memories\/nightmares <\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div><\/div>\n\n<div class=\"ub-button orientation-button-row ub-flex-wrap wp-block-ub-button\" id=\"ub-button-6fc00dda-8357-48ef-8318-e712c5b62ea7\"><div>\n\t\t\t<a href=\"http:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/?page_id=553&amp;lang=en\" target=\"_self\" class=\"ub-button-block-main  ub-button-flex\" style=\"border-radius: 60px;--ub-button-background-color: #2c877d; --ub-button-color: #ffffff; --ub-button-border: none; --ub-button-hover-background-color: #2c877d; --ub-button-hover-color: #ffffff; --ub-button-hover-border: none; padding-top: 10px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; padding-left: 10px; \">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"ub-button-content-holder\" style=\"flex-direction: row-reverse\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"ub-button-icon-holder\">\n\t\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" height=\"35\" width=\"35\" viewbox=\"0 0 512 512\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M256 512A256 256 0 1 0 256 0a256 256 0 1 0 0 512zM216 336h24V272H216c-13.3 0-24-10.7-24-24s10.7-24 24-24h48c13.3 0 24 10.7 24 24v88h8c13.3 0 24 10.7 24 24s-10.7 24-24 24H216c-13.3 0-24-10.7-24-24s10.7-24 24-24zm40-208a32 32 0 1 1 0 64 32 32 0 1 1 0-64z\">\n\t\t\t\t<\/path><\/svg>\n\t\t\t<\/span><span class=\"ub-button-block-btn\"> Anxiety <\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div><\/div>\n\n<div class=\"ub-button orientation-button-row ub-flex-wrap wp-block-ub-button\" id=\"ub-button-2abbf950-9259-4c55-9873-aff8c2e3386e\"><div>\n\t\t\t<a href=\"http:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/?page_id=558&amp;lang=en\" target=\"_self\" class=\"ub-button-block-main  ub-button-flex\" style=\"border-radius: 60px;--ub-button-background-color: #2c877d; --ub-button-color: #ffffff; --ub-button-border: none; --ub-button-hover-background-color: #2c877d; --ub-button-hover-color: #ffffff; --ub-button-hover-border: none; padding-top: 10px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; padding-left: 10px; \">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"ub-button-content-holder\" style=\"flex-direction: row-reverse\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"ub-button-icon-holder\">\n\t\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" height=\"35\" width=\"35\" viewbox=\"0 0 512 512\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M256 512A256 256 0 1 0 256 0a256 256 0 1 0 0 512zM216 336h24V272H216c-13.3 0-24-10.7-24-24s10.7-24 24-24h48c13.3 0 24 10.7 24 24v88h8c13.3 0 24 10.7 24 24s-10.7 24-24 24H216c-13.3 0-24-10.7-24-24s10.7-24 24-24zm40-208a32 32 0 1 1 0 64 32 32 0 1 1 0-64z\">\n\t\t\t\t<\/path><\/svg>\n\t\t\t<\/span><span class=\"ub-button-block-btn\"> Nervousness <\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"ub-button orientation-button-row ub-flex-wrap wp-block-ub-button\" id=\"ub-button-54436c60-73f8-4cc6-b00d-0605b330cdb1\"><div>\n\t\t\t<a href=\"http:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/?page_id=635&amp;lang=en\" target=\"_self\" class=\"ub-button-block-main  ub-button-flex\" style=\"border-radius: 60px;--ub-button-background-color: #2c877d; 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--ub-button-color: #ffffff; --ub-button-border: none; --ub-button-hover-background-color: #2c877d; --ub-button-hover-color: #ffffff; --ub-button-hover-border: none; padding-top: 10px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; padding-left: 10px; \">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"ub-button-content-holder\" style=\"flex-direction: row-reverse\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"ub-button-icon-holder\">\n\t\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" height=\"35\" width=\"35\" viewbox=\"0 0 512 512\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M256 512A256 256 0 1 0 256 0a256 256 0 1 0 0 512zM216 336h24V272H216c-13.3 0-24-10.7-24-24s10.7-24 24-24h48c13.3 0 24 10.7 24 24v88h8c13.3 0 24 10.7 24 24s-10.7 24-24 24H216c-13.3 0-24-10.7-24-24s10.7-24 24-24zm40-208a32 32 0 1 1 0 64 32 32 0 1 1 0-64z\">\n\t\t\t\t<\/path><\/svg>\n\t\t\t<\/span><span class=\"ub-button-block-btn\">Feeling down<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div><\/div>\n\n<div class=\"ub-button orientation-button-row ub-flex-wrap wp-block-ub-button\" id=\"ub-button-96e4ad85-38e2-435e-b86c-bb2eb632ee63\"><div>\n\t\t\t<a href=\"http:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/?page_id=599&amp;lang=en\" target=\"_self\" class=\"ub-button-block-main  ub-button-flex\" style=\"border-radius: 60px;--ub-button-background-color: #2c877d; 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