{"id":2924,"date":"2020-01-30T14:45:36","date_gmt":"2020-01-30T13:45:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vps31252.alfahosting-vps.de\/wordpress\/?page_id=2924"},"modified":"2020-06-03T14:44:22","modified_gmt":"2020-06-03T13:44:22","slug":"web_teenager_chronic_aggressivebehavior_en","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/?page_id=2924&lang=en","title":{"rendered":"Aggressive\/defiant behavior"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A severe trauma or being prolonged or repeatedly exposed to traumatic events can constitute a violation of sense of safety and belief in the world as a safe place and consequently might lead to aggressive and\/ or defiant behavior.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Aggressive behavior<\/h3>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: square;\">\n<li>Bullying, threatening, or hitting other children.<\/li>\n<li>Forcing other children into sexual activities.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Serious violation of rules<\/h3>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: square;\">\n<li><em>\u00a0<\/em>Defying parental prohibitions and rules (for example, staying out at night) and repeatedly run away from home, or skip school at a young age.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Destruction of property<\/h3>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: square;\">\n<li>Deliberately engaging in fire setting or destroying other`s property.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Lying or theft<\/h3>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: square;\">\n<li>\u00a0Lying for personal gain (receiving items or favors) or to avoid obligations.<\/li>\n<li>Stealing things of nontrivial value.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Defiant behavior<\/h3>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: square;\">\n<li>Being very sensitive or feeling quickly annoyed by others and consequently losing your nerves.<\/li>\n<li>Arguing with adults.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Tips<\/h3>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: square;\">\n<li>Agree on a sign with your friends and parents when you notice that aggressions arise. Also,\u00a0 agree on what to do when it happens (e.g., leaving the situation\/room for a short amount of time to calm down).<\/li>\n<li>Think of strategies to reduce aggressions (e.g. boxing in a pillow or punching bag).<\/li>\n<li>If you feel the urge to break something, calmly count to 10 and back again, box into a pillow, or throw a pillow against the wall.<\/li>\n<li>Reward yourself for positive behaviors (e.g., going to the movies, meeting friends, etc.).<\/li>\n<li>Try to use sport as an outlet for your aggressions.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A severe trauma or being prolonged or repeatedly exposed to traumatic events can constitute a violation of sense of safety and belief in the world as a safe place and consequently might lead to aggressive and\/ or defiant behavior. \u00a0 Aggressive behavior Bullying, threatening, or hitting other children. Forcing other children into sexual activities. \u00a0 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3461,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"ub_ctt_via":"","_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"featured_image_src":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/aggro-1.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2924"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2924"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2924\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6023,"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2924\/revisions\/6023"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3461"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2924"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}