{"id":311,"date":"2019-04-24T09:44:22","date_gmt":"2019-04-24T08:44:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vps31252.alfahosting-vps.de\/wordpress\/?page_id=311"},"modified":"2020-05-27T08:54:24","modified_gmt":"2020-05-27T07:54:24","slug":"chronicgeneralinformationsupport6conduct_en","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/?page_id=311&lang=en","title":{"rendered":"aggressive\/defiant behavior"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A severe trauma or being prolonged or repeatedly exposed to traumatic events can constitute a violation of sense of safety and belief in the world as a safe place. Therefore, children and adolescents can show aggressive, defiant behavior.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Aggressive behavior<\/h3>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: square;\">\n<li><em>\u00a0<\/em>Some children and adolescents bully, threaten, or hit other children.<\/li>\n<li>Sometimes children and adolescents force other children into sexual activities.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Serious violation of rules<\/h3>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: square;\">\n<li><em>\u00a0<\/em>Sometimes, children and adolescents defy parental prohibitions and rules (for example, staying out at night) and repeatedly run away from home, or skip school at a young age.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Destruction of property<\/h3>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: square;\">\n<li>Sometimes children and adolescents deliberately engage in fire setting or destroy other&#8217;s property.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Lying or theft<\/h3>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: square;\">\n<li>It may also happen that children and adolescents lie for personal gain (receiving items or favors) or to avoid obligations.<\/li>\n<li>Sometimes, children and adolescents steal things of nontrivial value.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Defiant behavior<\/h3>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: square;\">\n<li>Children and adolescents are often very sensitive, feel quickly annoyed by others and then lose their nerves. They argue and are defiant.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Tips<\/h3>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: square;\">\n<li>As parents, agree on rules and prohibitions and enforce them consistently. Be a team in front of your child.<\/li>\n<li>Ensure your child&#8217;s attention when pronouncing rules or prohibitions. Don&#8217;t allow distractions like video games or the use of a smartphone when giving instructions.<\/li>\n<li>Arrange a sign with your child when they notice that aggression arises. Agree on what to do when it happens (e.g. leaving the situation\/ room for a short amount of time to calm down).<\/li>\n<li>Together with your child, think of strategies for reducing aggression (e.g. boxing in a pillow or punching bag).<\/li>\n<li>Praise and reward positive behaviors.<\/li>\n<li>Make sure that your child regularly do physical exercise (e.g. by doing sport or activities together).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A severe trauma or being prolonged or repeatedly exposed to traumatic events can constitute a violation of sense of safety and belief in the world as a safe place. Therefore, children and adolescents can show aggressive, defiant behavior. \u00a0 Aggressive behavior \u00a0Some children and adolescents bully, threaten, or hit other children. Sometimes children and adolescents [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3461,"parent":249,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"ub_ctt_via":"","_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"featured_image_src":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/aggro-1.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/311"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=311"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/311\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5783,"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/311\/revisions\/5783"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/249"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3461"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kidtrauma.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=311"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}